Monday, October 20, 2008

comment ~marriage~



Marriage is best moment to remember. Before we marriage someone, firstly we must to know a little bit about our partner exspecially family background. Hope both family blessing the marriage. Marriage is not easy like we see without spouse's cooperation . Marriaged needed a best management from spouse. Management in life,finance,time and others. Therefore marriage need for spouse trust each other to make happy family. May be it make tension for the spouse in marriage. So take time off with give space and time to work hobbies and personal interest. In marriage take our time to release tension from any works you are like it. Psychology must be control for our wedding not in tension for you. Take time to read a lot book happiness family for preparation to be best wife and husband. Imagination that happy moments. That is one of your commitment for marriaged with our partner. Success marriaged is very important for our life and our future children to success in life. Happy spouse can avoid divorce and broken relationship father and children also mother and children. Make sure before marriage we know knowledge about marriaged.. InsyaAllah you can build happy family...

Sunday, October 19, 2008

...marriage...

. Make time for each other. It’s so easy in our hyper-busy modern lifestyles to forget to set aside a little time to enjoy each other’s company. Start a weekly tradition of setting a date for the two of you to be together doing something you both enjoy. Keep it simple. Take a nice walk together. Sip coffee together in a cozy coffeehouse. Talk to each other, reminisce, and get to know each other again.
2. Take time off from each other. Give each other space and time to work on hobbies and personal interests. When you have an interesting project to work on, you will feel more fulfilled and you will be a more interesting person.
3. Make little romantic gestures. Remember to compliment your spouse. Leave a little love note for them to find once in awhile. Celebrate the day you first met. Send flowers for no particular reason. You should continuously make little deposits in your spouse’s emotional bank account. The return on your investment will be incredible.
4. Fight fair. Don’t argue in front of other people. Don’t insult each other or each other’s families. Never threaten divorce, and never go to bed angry. Let the little things go, and don’t make a big deal out of every disagreement. Before arguing, think; is this really going to matter in the long run?
5. Take interest in what interests your spouse. Watch their favorite shows with them. Read their favorite book, so you can talk about it with them. Encourage them to develop their talents.
6. Listen to your spouse. Husbands, remember that women need to express their feelings. Be a good sport and just listen. Don’t interrupt, or get distracted. Empathize with her. Let her know that you can relate to what she’s feeling. Ladies, please remember that the kind of talk you might like to have with your husband does not come naturally to most men. Just is patient. It’s not a good idea to "unload" on him right when he comes home from work.
7. Accept your spouse for who they are. Practice total acceptance. Don’t hold your spouse to your expectations; you will only succeed at building resentment.
8. Express your commitment. In little ways, you can, and should, renew your vows to each other over and over. Your spouse will feel comfortable and secure knowing that you are truly committed to the marriage. True closeness will only happen when all doubt and insecurity is replaced by confidence in the relationship. Let your spouse know that you really are in it "till death do us part."
9. Trust in each other. Don’t be suspicious. Don’t snoop through each other’s belongings. To help ensure the trust, be honest with your spouse in all things. Never keep secrets from each other, not even little ones.
10. Make it your aim to be your spouse’s best friend. Appreciate your spouse for who they are. Loosen up and have fun with each other. If you are practicing the steps above, you are on your way to being your spouse’s best friend the ultimate relationship in marriage

comment ~ayat-ayat cinta novel~








This is my favourite novel. AYAT-AYAT CINTA by HABIBURRAHMAN EL-SHIRAZY. The islamic novel where learn about love. Very beautiful love. I like it. The story is about Faris (hero) is student of Universiti Al-Azhar. He from Indonesia. During he study at Mesir destiny meet he with Aisya. Aisya from richest family and she also from Indonesia but growing at Mesir because his father works at Mesir. Aisya is a good girl. She born with Islamic life. But Faris born in poor family but he is very patient and courageous person in his life.



One day,Faris's family from Indonesia call to give hope for Faris married. Faris don't want disappointed his family. So she want to 'taaruf' (recognize) with a women and her family to be his wife. Actually the 'taaruf' is with Aisya's family. After they discuss, both family agree to fasten the relationship with married Faris and Aisya. After a few day, Faris and Aisya married without both know each other. After married they fall in love. They happy in their life. But day not always shine, their household became problems when Faris defamated someone. Faris allegation roped a girl. Aisya as a wife try to find evidence for proof her husband innocent person.



To know the best love try read this novel or watch 'ayat-ayat cinta' film. It is interesting value you get...Feel it LOVE....

comment ~cars~




The article talked about how we to choose the best cars! For me better we choose to buy new car than used car. It's better for us to avoid get any problems where can give you tension. Then used car, many of damaged part must you repair. So it one of misspend for our money..Better you buy new car. Can save your money, your time, your energy and release your tension because don't have problems about car. Therefore, think before buy it!!!

CARS

Buying a used car is a great way to save some money and still get the car you've been searching for. Whether you're constrained by your pocketbook or have certain automotive needs that must be met (such as a backseat for the kids or four-wheel drive for winter weather), today's used car options deliver almost everything new cars do and at a lower overall cost.
1. DepreciationThe second you drive a new car off the lot, its value depreciates by as much as 20 percent. Studies show that most cars are only worth 60 to 70 percent of their original value three years after their purchase. When you buy a used car, all the depreciation has already been absorbed by the original owner.
2. No Overpriced Dealer RepairsWhen you purchase certain makes and models of new cars, the parts covered under warranty aren't valid if you use your own mechanic. In these instances, your only choice is to return to the dealership to get your repairs done. This is basically the dealership's way of getting you into their shops with their overpriced service. When you buy a used car, you can get repairs done on your own terms.
3. Save MoneyBuying used cars whether you are buying from a used car dealership, car classifieds, or online sites like Craigslist simply costs less money than buying new. New cars run an average of $25,000, while used cars are closer to the $10,000 range. If you're buying from a private seller, you might even be able to haggle the price down or barter to keep costs low.
4. Save the PlanetWhile buying a hybrid car might seem like a great way to go green, it actually takes more energy to build a new hybrid than it does to buy a fuel-efficient used car. Every time a hybrid comes off the assembly line, it takes about 46,000 miles of driving before the car breaks even in the amount of energy it saves through fuel efficiency. Buying a used car in the first place as long as it's not a gas guzzler will actually reduce your carbon footprint.
5. Lower Car Insurance RatesCar insurance rates are higher for new cars than they are for used cars. The reasons are simple: new cars are more likely to be financed (and therefore need full coverage), and annual insurance rates can run as high as 20 percent of a car's sticker price. Buying a newer, more expensive model can end up costing you money for years.
6. Higher Used Car StandardsThanks to new lemon laws and auto history check websites, it has become easier than ever to determine if a used car has undergone any major damage. Some used car dealerships also offer used car certification, which guarantees that they have been looked over and approved by a qualified mechanic.
7. Avoiding Car DealershipsWhen buying a used car, you have a number of places to look. You can peruse car classifieds, visit eBay or Craigslist, or opt for a used car dealership. New cars typically only come from one place - the dealer - so you have limited options when it comes to salesmen and haggling over prices.
8. Finding Good DealsOwners of new cars can be a pretty finicky set. Many people turn over their cars after one or two years simply as a matter of course, while others may decide that the monthly payments are too high to continue. If you take the time to look for quality used cars, you might find some incredibly good deals from individuals who are motivated to sell.
9. More Bang for Your BuckWhen you drive a new car straight off the lot, you typically pay for every added feature. When you upgrade to include a sunroof, tinted windows, and a spoiler, you can leave with a total price thousands of dollars higher than the sticker price. Used cars with these same amenities might cost a little more than those without, but not nearly to the same extent.
10. Used Cars can be just as Reliable if carefully inspectedAlthough buying a new car may seem like a more responsible choice, no car purchase is guaranteed to be hassle-free. Factory recalls, faulty parts, and required maintanence repairs can occur just as easily in a new car as they can in a used car. As long as you have your used car purchase checked out and you take good care of it, the overall reliability of your car can be just as good as a new car. Further, cars have also become more reliable with advances in technology.
Buying a car - regardless of whether you choose new or used - is a major endeavor that can put a strain on your finances for years. Fortunately, most of the benefits of buying a used car have to do with money. As long as you take your time, evaluate your prospective purchases, and have a mechanic check out the used car before you buy it, you and your used car can spend many happy years together.

comment article ~news~


This is a best news.. This news tell us about 2 children (2 and 4 years old) different religious with his mother. The question in my mind is can mother care 2 children and make sure the children practice their religious (islam) in their life when granted to their Hindu mother? How? The children are very young to know and understand application Islam in their life. I thinks the children must granted by people know about Islam very well to avoid the children become an apostate. This is very dangerous. From my research, the laws in Malaysia very weak and has many problems. Exspeacilly about religious law. The law must be change to safe innocent people and punishment guilty people.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

News

In April 2004, the civil High Court in Kuala Lumpur granted custody of 2 young boys aged 2 and 4 years to their Hindu mother. The judge imposed one condition - she was not to expose her sons to her Hindu faith. The 2 boys were previously, without her knowledge or consent, converted to Islam by her estranged husband, himself a recent convert to Islam.
The same court had earlier dismissed an application by the Hindu mother for a declaration that the conversion of the 2 young children to Islam violated her parental right to co-determine the religious upbringing of the children. The reasoning of the court was that it had no jurisdiction, as the children were now Muslim and the correctness or otherwise of their conversion was a matter for the Syariah Court.
Shamala's case brought home the point that the constitutional role of the civil High Court as the protector of the rights of the ordinary citizen was fast becoming illusory. The implications of this case, however, became the rallying force that drew together a small number of concerned NGOs and members of civil society. This group noted that besides Sharmala's case, there were other cases that had impacted the right of belief and the right to practise one's belief as guaranteed under Article 11 of the Federal Constitution. By May 2004, Shamala's case had given life to a coalition of NGOs, which has come to be known as Article 11.